Sometimes people don’t mean you any harm. They just don’t mean you any good either. It is not personal for them. They are just being themselves.
However, if being themselves translates into them being your enemy or someone that you need to avoid, so be it.
Be thankful that you discovered this glitch in your matrix of life before you wasted any more of your limited lifetime and resources investing in someone who makes you unhappy and who may even contribute to your destruction.
Come out from among them and be ye separated!
It may not be personal for them but it is personal to you. It is your time and life on the line. Guard them jealously. Ultimately, they are all that you really ever have.
Don’t waste them.