“Sexual Bullying”

Abstinence is beautiful

Bullying Comes In All Forms. 

Today I would like to highlight sexual bullying.

The culture that I came up in and that still exits today is one where a man is expected to have more than one woman even if he is married and a wife is expected to forgive her husband for any extramarital affairs and forget the lies and infidelity if he apologizes enough, even if his apology is as worthless as his vow to be faithful.

There is a significant segment of this culture that thinks that, if you are a woman, you must have a boyfriend and be sexually active and if you are a man you must a girlfriend and be sexually active or else you are gay or something is wrong with you.

There are all types of sinful negative stigmas that our so-called Christian society attaches to someone who doesn’t participate in sexual immorality.

As a matter of fact, it seems to be more rewarding for a woman to have premarital sex resulting in an unplanned pregnancy and a baby born out-of-wedlock.  It seems to be morally acceptable and rewarding for and a man to have an affair while married than it is for someone to maintain sexual purity and marriage fidelity.

This society allows men and woman to brag about their sexual conquests and infidelity and it rewards sexually immorality with praises, celebrity status, baby showers, presents and cash.  Disobeying God is now glamorous and profitable.  

This society tends to make the celibate and virgins feel as if they are outcasts and lepers. This society, through its amoral opinions and various media propaganda efforts, is actually bullying folks to disobey God’s commands regarding sexual sin and morality.

They say things like: “It is perfectly natural” or “Everyone else is doing it” or “God will understand” or “You are old enough to have sex so do whatever you want to do.”

Do these statement and sentiments sound like something that Christ or His Apostles would teach and say?  I don’t think so.

Don’t Get Bullied Into Going To Hell. (Galatians 5:19-21, Ephesians 5:5, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10)

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