“Here is how it works: it was through one individual that sin entered the world, and through sin, death; and in this way death passed through to the whole human race, inasmuch as everyone sinned.” ~ Romans 5:12 (CJB)
We may not like to think about it this way but every one of us were born into sin and therefore everyone is born a child of disobedience and damnation.
From our earthly birth we inherit disobedience, treachery, deceit, fornication, adultery, extortion, drunkenness, sexual perversions, lying, murder, idolatry and all forms of wickedness. Because Adam sinned, the sin nature was passed to all human beings. Sinning comes naturally to us. And the wages of sin is eternal separation from the Father, i.e., death. (Rm. 6:23)
And regardless of how sweet and kind and generous and loving and patient and good we may be, all of us have sinned and deserve death. (Rm. 3:23)
And if we would like to live and be delivered from the wages of sin and the inherent damnation into which we were born, we must be born again.